Roasted coffee is a perishable thing. Once a bag is opened — and even before, if it has been sitting on a shelf for months — the aromas that make a cup taste sweet and rounded go off first, and what's left tastes flat and harsh. Stale beans don't brew bitter on their own so much as they make every other mistake louder: a dull, ashy finish that reads as bitterness.
The fix
Buy whole bean, not pre-ground, and grind immediately before you brew. Keep the bag closed, at room temperature, out of sunlight — no fridge, no freezer between brews, since condensation does more harm than time on the counter. Grind only what this cup needs. If your beans came from a supermarket shelf with a date you can't read, that's the first variable to change.
Fine grounds have far more surface area, so water pulls from them much faster. Past a certain point you aren't extracting flavour any more — you're extracting the dry, astringent stuff that sits at the end of the extraction order. The tell is easy: the brew slows to a drip, the cup tastes sharp and drying on the sides of your tongue, and the same beans taste better when you coarsen one notch.
The fix
Adjust your grinder one step coarser and brew again — that's the whole test. As a starting point: pour-over sits around table salt, AeroPress somewhere between table salt and sand. If you don't own a grinder and buy pre-ground, ask the roaster for a grind matched to your brewer instead; blenders produce a lot of dust-fine particles that over-extract in any method.
Boiling water scorches the top layer of the bed and drags out bitter compounds early, before the sugars and acids have had their turn. It's the most common habit in home brewing because it's the fastest one to skip: kettle boils, kettle pours, nothing waits.
The fix
Let the kettle sit for 30–60 seconds after the boil before you pour. You don't need a thermometer for that, though one helps — anywhere in the low-to-mid 90s °C is workable, and lighter roasts tolerate the hotter end while darker roasts prefer the cooler end. For an AeroPress, pouring boiling water into the plastic chamber already drops it enough.